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7 Useful Tips When Attending A Singles Soirée

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A Singles Soirée might just  be your thing because you prefer to meet people physically and decipher whether you would like to become more acquainted within a few minutes. 

 

Events like these are perfect for people who have been carried away by their careers or who may not have had any dating luck in the past. Are you thinking of attending a Singles Soirée?  You should! 

 

Here are a few  useful tips to help you out:

 

Dress to Impress

Do not attend a Singles Soirée looking like you can’t be bothered because your friend dragged you out the house. If you are coming from work, remember that you can switch up your outfit by removing a tie here, taking off your jacket or letting your hair down. Smell nice but don’t drench yourself with the fragrance potion because you don’t want the pretty girl to keep sneezing when you are standing by her. Keep it simple and look clean as appearance allows for visual stimulation of your potential partner. Remember a first impression counts!

 

Don’t Have Too Many Expectations

Singles mixers are meant for mixing!  Although someone may approach you even if you are clustered in a corner with the friends you came with it may not happen too often. Relax and be sociable- speak to as many people as you can and don’t have the mindset that you must find “the one” at that particular event.

 

Be Accessible and Communicate

Sitting through these events alone or without saying a word may seem very antisocial and you don’t want people wondering why you came. Make sure you talk to people and don’t talk about yourself, ask questions – be interesting.

 

Have Some Manners

Make sure you are on your best behaviour, courteous and polite even if you do not fancy the person whom you might be talking to at the moment.  Making eye contact is always good but  NEVER stare at anyone especially where you should not stare. 

 

Careful of the drinks

While on the subject of manners, if your Singles Soirée includes wine or alcohol make sure that you don’t overdo it. Getting drunk at one of these parties is a definite no.

 

Approach With Caution

When you find someone attractive, it is important to stay courteous and polite. It’s ok to flirt just enough for the person to read your body language but don’t overpower them by getting too close, holding their hands and groping their body. Too much, too soon is a turn-off especially if you are ready to date with the purpose of entering a serious relationship. Listen with attention when the other person is speaking

 

Ask for details

If interested in someone, ask for their number and tell them that you fancy another date. Remember to stay confident and calm. 

 

Good luck in meeting someone new!

 

If you are looking for a Singles Soirée to attend, look no further… [Please remember the tips above] 

It is our immense pleasure to welcome you to our Singles Wine Soirée in the heart of the winelands. Please drive safely as you meander through the vineyards on the Annandale road, Stellenbosch. As you approach Rust en Vrede you will see the turn off to our hidden treasure, Haskell Vineyards, where you will be welcomed with a glass of MCC and our wine Soirée hosts will direct you to your seat.

 

Tickets

 

It is imperative that you are fashionably early, still able to catch the sunset as the evening mood is set by soft music and our sauve Master of Ceremonies will clink the opening glass. The evening delights will include music, wine, food and conversation pairings and you will be whisked from conversation delight to conversation delight by our Soirée hosts whilst guaranteed to be kissed [by the wine].

Unfortunately we can only accommodate a limited amount of people for what is billed to be the “Singles Soirée of the Year” – Your entrance pass awaits…  Tickets here –https://qkt.io/4cAn9K